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Friday, March 25, 2022

Stop Divorce Through Indian Astrology | Divorce Prediction Astrology - Divorce Yog in Kundli By Date of Birth

 

Stop Divorce Through Indian Astrology



Planets Responsible for Divorce in Astrology

Mars, Rahu, Saturn and Sun are the main houses that induce marital issues or divorce problems in Kundli. Apart from this, the position of planets such as Venus and Jupiter also impact the marriage and divorce possibilities. In the Birth Chart of the boy, the malefic or weak or afflicted position of Venus indicates disharmony in marital life while in the Kundli of the girl, the afflicted or weak position of Jupiter shows despair due to the husband.

Houses Responsible Indicating Divorce Signs in Astrology

As per Vedic Astrology Divorce Prediction, each astrology houses in the horoscope govern a specific area of your life. By understanding and observing the positions of planets and Nakshatras in the houses, one can predict various possibilities that may come in the future. Especially for marriage and divorce predictions in astrology, Kundli houses offer detailed insights into your marital life. Here are the houses that offer Divorce predictions in astrology

4th House

4th house represents the family. It indicates the happiness you receive from your family. As per Divorce prediction astrology, The weak or debilitated 4th house or Lord of the 4th house indicates a lack of happiness in the family. 

7th House

7th house is the house of marriage. It indicates all sorts of relationships that you may have in your life. The afflicted 7th house shows an unhappy marital life and divorce signs in astrology. 

8th House

8th house is the house of pleasure. Astrologers analyze this house to check your love compatibility and sexual compatibility with your partner. It shows all the struggles, obstacles and secret things in marital life. 8th house is checked to give extra marital predictions in astrology. Also, a weak or afflicted 8th house or relation of 8th house with the 7th house Lord or house is analyzed to find the adverse possibilities in the marriage of the native. 

12th House

12th house is the house of sexual pleasure. The weak or afflicted 12th house can signify poor or bad sexual life. If a person has afflicted 12th house, then there are chances that native lack the interest in sexual life.


How to predict Divorce in Astrology?

According to astrology, here are some of the reasons for divorce in astrology:

  • The 7th house of the horoscope highlights details in relation with detachment, separation and divorce. This happens when the 7th house is under the effect of negative placements of the planets. In case, Rahu, Sun and Saturn are in the 7th house and they are not influenced by Venus or Jupiter then in that case, chances of divorce are quite high.
  • When the lord of 7th house is found in the 6th house then again there are chances of divorce.
  • When the lord of 7th house is weak then also there are chances of having separation.

Divorce Signs in Astrology - What are The Possibilities of Separation in Married Life

Formation of following Yogas in Kundli can predict divorce or separation the way before you see rifts in your marriage. So, stop thinking “Is there any divorce Yog in Kundli?” and read on further to check Divorce in Kundli for getting the answer. 

  1. If the 7th house is afflicted, associated, conjoined or aspected by any malefic planet, then there are high chances of divorce in your Kundli. 
  2. If the Lord of the 7th house is positioned in 6th, 8th or 12th house of the Birth chart, then it is a divorce sign in astrology. 
  3. The weak or debilitated Venus in the 7th, 8th or 12th house of Kundli helps astrologers to give divorce predictions in astrology. 
  4. The presence of 7th house in Kundli causes ego clashes and disturbances. This Divorce Yog in Kundli leads to separation among couples. 
  5. If Ketu is placed in the 7th house, then this is a divorce sign in astrology.
  6. If the 7th house is occupied by Jupiter, then it is predicted to have a divorce situation or separation in married life
  7. When the Dashas of 6th, 8th and 12th house provides divorce predictions in astrology chart.

When Will I Get Divorced Astrology?

Sometimes married life becomes so painful that one of the partners in the marriage seeks divorce to end the relationship. In such duration, that person waits for the separation and continuously think of the time When he/she will get a divorce. Astrology can help in predicting the timing of the divorce. It can also share the time of the marriage problem and tell the exact timing of separation in the astrology chart. Here is how to predict divorce time in astrology. 

  • If the Lord of the 7th house is related to 6th or 8th house, then the native may get a Divorce when the Dasha of the 7th Lord is running. 
  • Divorce in astrology is indicated in the time period of planets that afflicts the 4th house, especially when these planets also own 6th, 8th or 12 houses. 
  • If Rahu, Mars and Saturn are associated with 4th, 7th or 12 th house and make any Divorce Yog in Kundali, then you may predict divorce in Kundli during the time period of these planets. 

Astrology Tips to avoid divorce, Remedies Stop divorce

Though your kundali reflects chances of divorce in your life but with the right astrological remedies to stop divorce, you can save your marriage. We have shared some of those remedies here:

Daily Pooja to avoid divorce:

  • If the marriage is not working great then the husband and the wife should together go to the temple for avoiding divorce at least once in a week.
  • Light a pure ghee diya while you offer prayers to God.
  • Make sure that you have a temple in your home where you can worship God every morning and evening together.
  • Every Thursday, offer prayer to Banana and Peepal tree by offering water and lighting ghee diyas for banana tree and mustard oil diya for Peepal tree.

Mantras or yantras to avoid divorce:

  • Swayamvarparvati yantra should be kept in your pooja.
  • Every day chant the powerful Tulsi Gayatri Mantra for 108 times: ‘Om Shree Tulsavidmahey, Vishnu Priyaye Dhimahi, Tannovrinda prachodiaat.’
  • Worship Lord Shiva every day along with chanting the mantra: Om Namah Shivay.
  • Every day read Shani Mahatmyam loud to appease Saturn.

General Remedies:

  • Always donate together things to needy people.
  • Make sure you offer water and food on festive occasions to pitras.
  • Do not sleep in the bedroom in the West direction of the house.
  • The head should be either in the East or South direction while sleeping.
  • Wife should sleep on the left hand side of the husband.
  • Try and use the same pillow.
  • Have your bedroom painted either in light green or light pink color.
  • Keep white colored flowers in your bedroom every Friday.
  • Offer white colored sweet to Goddess on Fridays and also consume the same.
  • Wife should wear golden bangles.

How to Stop problems in marriage by Hanuman mantra

In order to save your marriage, you must understand the power of Hanuman mantra to stop divorce. If you are facing problems in your marriage then chanting this divine mantra can help you win back the lost love your spouse. This mantra does no harm to anyone but by using any of the Hanuman Vashikaran mantras can help you put an end to all the troubles in your marriage.

You can get in touch with an experienced astrologer to know the effective Hanuman mantra to stop the problems in your marriage and avoid second marriage.


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Saturday, September 16, 2023

Abusive Spouse from the horoscope | divoce Yoga

 

Abusive Spouse from the horoscope

You might be given horoscopes of both the husband and wife. Generally the question is if they should try to conciliate or go for a divorce. You should analysis the victim’s chart for specific pointers for ‘victim-hood’. Check the chart of the spouse if he is involved himself or is it his family doing the torture. If the spouse is clearly the aggressor. Or is he a mute by-stander while his family is abusing the spouse. If you get their children’s horoscopes too, they might show typical combinations where the parents do not get along well together, ie their 4th, 10th houses will show the effects.

Some typical combinations. Fiery or dissociative planets like Sun, Mars, Saturn, and Rahu /Ketu in the 1st or 7th house can indicate the violent nature of the spouse. Any association of Venus and Rahu should be examined with due care, ie even if they are in the same trikon they can influence each other. They can give affairs outside marriage. Look into the relationship of 3rd and 6th houses with Mars, Moon and ascendant lord. Another pattern is if the ascendant lord and the lord of 7th are in the 6/8 axis. . If the owner of the ascendant or 7th house with the nodes/ functional malefics. If the 2nd 4th 7th houses together are damaged at birth or in transit there is a marital problem with clashes in the family/house, etc.

  • The ascendant sign i.e. the 1st house will indicate the personality and the environment that the person has.
  • 2nd house — indicates the birth family of the person. Sometimes the birth family does not support the person if he/she complains of problems in the in-laws house.
  • 3rd house — can indicate a potential criminal mind-set or the involvement of the siblings.
  • 4th house — the environment of the home where he/she lives, the birth mother, the father-in-law. Analyse this in detail.
  • 6th house — problems that the person faces, debt, enemies, infamy, bad luck, slavery, servitude, being sold off?
  • 7th house — relationship with the life partner and social status after marriage. this house will require detailed analysis.
  • 8th house — organs of reproduction, hormonal issues, marital-relations, accidents, surgeries, secrets which can create traumas, etc. The family of the spouse. The 8th house is catastrophic transformations, which also includes marital abuse, divorce, widowhood, death etc. It indicate impotency or deviant sexual habits which can exacerbate domestic violence. Malefics here, even if they own that same sign can cause problems. Analyse this house critically.
  • 10th house — the specific mother-in-law
  • 12th house — subconscious hate, guilt, suppressed feelings, things that happen behind closed doors in secret, behaviours in the bedroom.

Now check the planets for their power to give auspicious/inauspicious results. The ascendant house/ lord, the birth Moon and the 7th house/ lord in the birth chart are especially important.

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 If these are strongly placed there may be problems but the marriage might survive but if these are severely damaged then the possibility of divorce cannot be ruled out.

  • Ascendant lord — how well does the personality and the environment match. Is the personality stable, well-adjusted or not
  • Moon — Identifying criminal tendencies and perversions of the mind is linked to the position of the birth moon. The mind-set as a whole. If he is afflicted by cruel and malefic planets.
  • Sun — a very powerful Sun in the spouse’s house invariably means unhappiness in the marriage. If this strong Sun further occupies the 1st 4th 7th 10th houses, this person ignores the spouse, can be ruthless, dominant and psychological torture cannot be ruled out.
  • Jupiter: as a significator of husband Dharma-pati, marital auspiciousness. If there are any positive aspects of Jupiter on the 7th house or its lord, he can reduce the malefic impacts. But if he is stopped from giving his beneficial results then the problems can be aggravated.
  • Venus: pleasures in marriage. pleasures outside marriage. If with Rahu/Ketu or influenced by the malefics can indicate extra marital affairs.
  • Mars: if damaged can indicate a jealous, violent and aggressive, nature, sexual energy, accidents, physical violence, murders, surgeries, trauma, risky behaviour etc. This is why a Manglik nature is considered risky in marriage. This means that Mars in the 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th houses counted from your ascendent or even your birth Moon. Mars aspecting 7th house/lord. So analyse Mars carefully.
  • Saturn: can give fear, guilt, dejection, insensitivity, strictness in the marriage. There is little or no love if the 7th house is in any way connected to Saturn.
  • Rahu: can give tendency towards harshness, lying, socially unaccepted behaviour, cheating, psychological issues etc. Mars or Saturn or Rahu combination in any way can give violent traits. eg Mars aspecting Saturn, Saturn aspecting Rahu, Rahu and Mars in same trikon, or Saturn in scorpio etc. You will see patterns in the horoscope.
  • Ketu: can give an erratic nature, sly, not concerned about the spouse/marriage, cold, psychological issues etc.



Finally remember that there should be at least 3 or more combinations in the birth chart and these should be powerful enough to cause the unhappiness in marriage. 

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Just one combination does not make a reading. The current transit/ dashas should activate that tendency of the birth chart ie its influence should be active at that point of time. This is making a very personal judgement on someone’s personality, married life etc so do analyse properly.


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Thursday, September 14, 2023

Married Life में हैं मुश्किलें या Divorce तक पहुंच गई है बात, रिश्‍ता बचाने में कारगर हैं ये Totke

 

Married Life में हैं मुश्किलें या Divorce तक पहुंच गई है बात, रिश्‍ता बचाने में कारगर हैं ये Totke




वैवाहिक रिश्‍ते में ऐसी समस्‍याएं आने के पीछे जातक की कुंडली (Kundali) की ग्रह-दशाएं भी कारण होती हैं. यदि समय रहते कुछ उपाय कर लिए जाएं तो तलाक की स्थिति से बचा भी जा सकता है. ज्योतिषाचार्य शमा शर्मा से जानते हैं तलाक से बचने के उपाय. 

तलाक से बचने के टोटके 

कुंडली में तलाक का योग बनता हो तो उसके लिए जिम्‍मेदार ग्रह से संबंधित उपाय करने से शादी को टूटने से बचाया जा सकता है. 

- यदि कुंडली में शनि दोष हो और उसके कारण तलाक का योग बनता हो तो सिद्ध 7 मुखी रुद्राक्ष धारण करें. साथ ही शनि ग्रह को शांत करने के उपाय करें. - यदि कुंडली में तलाक का योग बनता हो तो सिद्ध 7 मुखी रुद्राक्ष धारण करें और सुबह उठकर गणेश जी की पूजा करें, उन्‍हें लडडू का भोग लगाएं 
- यदि राहु गड़बड़ है तो सिद्ध किया गया 8 मुखी रुद्राक्ष धारण करें. इससे आपकी परेशानी दूर हो जाएगी .
- तलाक से बचने के लिए पुरुष अभिमंत्रित हीरा धारण करें. इससे घर में शांति रहेगी और आर्थिक स्थिति भी बेहतर होगी.
- जातक बेडरूम में सिद्ध शुक्र यंत्र की स्थापना करे. इससे पति-पत्‍नी के बीच की परेशानियां दूर होती हैं.

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- यदि आपके घर में कहीं पर भी चीटियां निकलती है तो उन्हें चीनी और आटा खिलाएं. लगातर 21 दिनों तक इस क्रिया को करें. इससे बहुत लाभ होगा.
- पति-पत्‍नी के बीच की कलह खत्‍म करने के लिए रात को सोते समय अपना सिर पूर्व दिशा की ओर कर के सोएं. इससे दोनों के बीच शांति आएगी. 
- यदि बात अदालत तक पहुंच जाये तो उसके निवारण के लिए पति अपनी पत्‍नी का और पत्‍नी अपने पति का नाम लाल कलम से भोजपत्र पर लिखे. अब 51 बार हनुमान जी के मंत्र का जाप करते हुए इसे घर के किसी कोने में रख दें. ऐसा करने से तलाक का योग समाप्त हो जाएगा. साथ ही रिश्‍ता बेहतर होगा.




- तलाक से बचने के लिए सिंदूर की डिबिया में सिद्ध किए गए 5 गोमती चक्र डालकर उसे पूजा स्थल पर रख दें. अब प्रतिदिन पूजा के समय महिलाएं इस से मांग भरें और पुरुष इस से तिलक करें. तलाक से बचने का यह उपाय बहुत कारगर सिद्ध हुआ है.
- यदि लड़ाई झगडे़ ज्यादा बढ़ जाएं तो पीपल की पेड़ की जड़ में 14 दिनों तक रोजाना जल चढ़ाएं.

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Thursday, November 10, 2022

Taurus Horoscope 2023

 

Taurus Horoscope 2023




Well began is Half Done! – Taurus Horoscope 2023

At the beginning of the year, 2 are going to receive happiness and fulfilling your wishes from friends, as well as be rewarded financially. You will get the blessings of Jupiter, Saturn, and Mercury this year, which means that your best contribution to your success this year will be your optimistic approach, as well as your persistence to get the desired outcome with the assistance of Saturn. You should make some small changes to your daily routine this year so that you can make sure that you maintain a healthy balance between your personal life and your professional life as indicated by Rahu. In the first quarter of this year, Mars suggests that you maintain patience and avoid being aggressive so that your plan can be carried out. In the first phase of March, Sun will cause some delay in getting favor from the boss and seniors, but from the last phase, things will start improving.

Learning is the New Normal of Modern Times!

This year, in terms of learning new skills and getting an education, you will get a chance to fulfill your desire to get admission to a foreign country. The same is true for those of you who aspire to play at the international level. Mercury and Jupiter movement will provide a positive result and success in the arena of love and married life. Rahu and Ketu movement has given an alarm to be attentive in marital life because things can be difficult and demanding in nature, and suspicion can trigger a breakup. Keep your words in control. Rahu and Mars can give sudden results regarding the divorce or second marriage for some people or those who waited for divorce or second marriage. Talk to Astrologer Online 

Money is Sweeter than Honey – Taurus Horoscope 2023

In the second quarter, Jupiter will instil good luck in terms of money and the ability to make the right investments with the right intelligence. Your proper plan and ability to make decisions will give you financial gain from the influence of Saturn. You need to have a prior plan regarding your saving and expenditures for the month of March and April because you may encounter unexpected expenses. There may be health-related expenditures for some of you or expenses towards yoga and meditation-related courses. During this year, with Jupiter and Rahu transiting each other, religious activity will be a major expenditure. October and November can bring you some health-related expenditures as well as some debt-related debates that can cause stress. A Mars and Ketu conjunction in the last quarter of this year indicates you should avoid taking any aggressive or quick investment decision.

Love is a Feeling to Experience – Taurus Horoscope 2023

In terms of love relationships, the first half of 2023 will bring some good proposals for relationships and also an expected realization of happiness through a love marriage. In addition, love relationships may also flourish between July and August. For your married life, it is suggested that you avoid having a demanding nature and also give your partner some space for them to be comfortable around you. When it comes to getting married or finding the perfect match this year, Jupiter will help you by giving you a marriage between April and August. For those planning on getting divorced and those seeking a second marriage, the months of October and December will be favorable.

Business Flourishes with Positivity – Taurus Horoscope 2023

In this year’s Saturn cycle, you must remain persistent for business success and avoid negativity in your thinking. The Mars movement after May will give you expected success in business and will be a positive time for those who are running their own business. It is probable that in the month of October, there might be sudden disagreements with business partners resulting from the movement of Venus and Ketu. Job seekers will experience success and advancement this year but the presence of Ketu suggests that they refrain from getting involved in office politics as well as refraining from discussing things that are not important in the workplace. A sudden debate can occur at work during the second phase of April, as well as during the months of September, October, and November, due to Mars and Mercury.


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Friday, September 24, 2021

How would you identify the family afflicted by “Pitra Dosha?”

 How would you identify the family afflicted by “Pitra Dosha?”



Level 1: Inordinate marriage delays; living as bachelors for the entire lifetime

Level 2: Failed Marriages due to various reasons like separation, divorce (or) death.

Level 3: Inordinate delay in getting conceived for a child

Level 4: Miscarriages during the pregnancy (or) forced abortion (or) wilful abortion

Level 5: Serious problem occurring during the pregnancy

Level 6: Possessing a child with mental (or) physical disability.

Level 7: Unnatural death occurring in a family due to accidents (or) murder (or) suicide

Note 1: The Level 1 represents the least level of problems in “Pitra Dosha” and the Level 7 represents the worst form of “Pitra Dosha”

Note 2: You must understand that the “Pitra Dosha” would not create any major impact on career, finances (or) wealth of a native who has been affected by “Pitra Dosha” Hence don’t assume that just because a person is rich (or) powerful, then it doesn’t automatically guarantee a peaceful life.


How can I know my Pitra dosh in a Kundali/Horoscope?

a) Rahu placed in the 2nd house from Sun.
b) Sun placed in the 12th house from Rahu.
c) Rahu placed in the sixth position from Sun.
d) Sun placed in 8th place from Rahu.
e) Sun placed in 6/8/12th position from Lagna
f) Sun place in the 9th house from the Lagna.
g) Combination of Sun/Rahu or Sun/Ketu at the same house.

Impact of “Pitra Dosha”:

1. The Couple would face quarrels, squabbles and fight on daily basis ripping off their peacefulness in their family life.

2. The Couple would maintain distance away from each other (or) face temporary separation.

3. The Couple would face permanent separation due to divorce (or) death of their Partner.

4. The Couple could face inordinate delays in getting pregnant (or) face multiple complications during the pregnancy.

5. The Couple would face prospect of adopting another child.

6. The Couple would be saddled with mentally (or) physical disabled child.

7. The Couple could face sudden losses/damages (or) unexpected events impacting their life heavily.

8. The Couple would be made to remain as an onlooker into the sufferings of their future generations.


What causes Pitra dosh

a) Planets position in the horoscope.
b) Ancestors deeds.
c) Own karma.

How to identify the “Pitra Dosh” in the Horoscope?

1. The presence of the Sun, descending Moon, Mars, Raghu, Sun, Shani and Kethu in the 5th house indicates the Pithru dosham (Pitra Dosha).

2. The 5th and/or 9th house lord getting debilitated or in retrograde position or getting weakened.

3. The 5th and/or 9th house lord is either being associated with malefic planets or staying in a malefic house.

4. The presence of debilitated or retrograde planets in the 5th and/or 9th house.

5. The 5th house and/or 9th house lord is getting weakened in the Divisional charts.

6. The 5th house lord and/or 9th house lord traversing in the Star of a malefic planet or traversing in the 22nd star/88 division from the birth Star.

7. The presence of malefic house lords getting placed in the 5th and/or 9th house

8. Association of 5th and/or 9th house lord with Raghu/Kethu in any house. The problems could remain intense, if the 5th and/or 9th house lords placed in a closer proximity towards the Rahu/Kethu

9. If the Raghu or Kethu is placed in a close proximity to the Sun and/or Moon.

10. If the 5th or 9th house lords getting very low counts in their respective Ashtavargha charts; this situation indicates serious nature of the Pitra Dosha.

Moral Theory:

Do not invite troubles to your daughter by getting married to a boy from a family that has plenty of “Pitra Dosha” to their credit.

Can Pitra Dosha be removed?

Yes. Perform the right Pitra dosh pooja as per Vedic standards at the right place by the right priests. Practice meditation to minimize your own bad karma. Respect elders and parents. Treat them with care and affection.
Anna Daan, Gau Daan, etc.. Look after poor people by offering food. Involve in community services like Education and Health care. Chant Pitra dosh nivaran mantra.


What is the Pitra Kalyan pooja?

If one performs Narayan Bali/Tripindi/Thila Homam to express gratitude to ancestors without any Pitra dosha symptoms, the pooja is called Pitra Kalyan pooja.

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Wednesday, September 20, 2023

Amavasya Dosha in the 7th house

 Amavasya Dosha in the 7th house



Amavasya Dosha in the 7th house is a challenging placement that can have a negative impact on the individual's love life and relationships.

The 7th house in astrology is associated with marriage, partnership, and relationships. Amavasya Dosha is caused when the Sun and Moon are conjunct in the same sign during the birth of the individual. This conjunction is considered to be inauspicious, and it can create challenges in the individual's relationships.

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People with Amavasya Dosha in the 7th house may have difficulty finding a suitable partner. They may also be prone to conflict and arguments in their relationships. Additionally, this placement can make the individual susceptible to divorce or separation.

Here are some of the specific challenges that people with Amavasya Dosha in the 7th house may face:

  • Difficulty finding a suitable partner
  • Prone to conflict and arguments in relationships
  • Susceptible to divorce or separation
  • Lack of intimacy and emotional connection in relationships
  • Feeling lonely and isolated
  • Difficulty trusting others
  • Fear of commitment

If you have Amavasya Dosha in the 7th house, it is important to be aware of the potential challenges and to take steps to mitigate them. Here are some tips:

  • Be patient and don't rush into relationships.
  • Choose a partner who is compatible with you on all levels.
  • Be honest and open with your partner about your needs and desires.
  • Be willing to compromise and work through conflict in a healthy way.
  • Seek professional counseling if you are struggling in your relationships.

It is also important to remember that Amavasya Dosha is not a curse. It is simply a challenge that you must overcome in order to have a happy and fulfilling love life. By being aware of the challenges and taking steps to mitigate them, you can create a strong and lasting relationship.

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Additionally, you can perform certain remedial measures to reduce the negative effects of Amavasya Dosha. These remedies may include:

It is important to note that these remedies are not a substitute for hard work and self-awareness. In order to have a happy and fulfilling love life, you must be willing to work on yourself and to make changes in your life.